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Living with a perfectionist by David A. Stoop

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Published by Oliver-Nelson in Nashville .
Written in English


  • Perfectionism (Personality trait),
  • Interpersonal relations.

Book details:

Edition Notes

Bibliography: p. 170-176.

StatementDavid Stoop.
LC ClassificationsBF698.35.P47 S76 1987
The Physical Object
Pagination176 p. :
Number of Pages176
ID Numbers
Open LibraryOL2377320M
ISBN 100840790449
LC Control Number87005711

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